What God’s Love is #8: Love is Not Rude

by Rick

(1Co 13:5 AMP)  It is not conceited (arrogant and inflated with pride); it is not rude (unmannerly) and does not act unbecomingly. Love (God’s love in us) does not insist on its own rights or its own.

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  • The modern day translations for the word rude tell us that being rude is: to act in an offensive manner; to be abruptly and unpleasantly forceful; to be discourteous, coarse, or vulgar.
  • In the original language of our text, to be rude means to become easily provoked or irritated.
  • Love is not these things.


Love is not rude.  The Message Bible says that it “doesn’t fly off the handle.”  Love doesn’t seek to offend, but rather to reconcile.  Love doesn’t seek to cause offense, but rather to share with others while operating in harmony.

When you develop in God’s Love you:
#1:  Share the Gospel without offending others
– spirituality is not a license to offend
– winning the argument without winning a soul

#2:  Communicate possibly contentious thoughts without causing offense
– you learn how to confront in love and harmony

#3:  Take control of your emotions and you don’t allow them to control you
– high tolerance for people

Are you rude towards others?  Are you easily provoked or irritated?  Do you cause others to be offended?  If so, then repent this morning and ask God to allow His love and His light to be perfected in you this day and this week.

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